8 rules in dating
So, I've scoured the interwebs for tips that should help when dating a single mom.
Here are eight rules that I think will lead you in the right direction.
With single dads, there's all kinds of people who were in his life before you were.
His kids may get jealous, his kids' mother may get jealous, and, yes, you may get jealous from time to time, too.
I would imagine that everyone has some sort of reaction to that word.
To some, the word evokes memories of romantic moments with a significant other.
Rule #2: Know the Difference Between Expectations and Standards Standards are the things you must have in a relationship—mutual respect, attraction, fun, etc.
Expectations, however, set you up for disappointment, and they blind you when you've got something good.
Despite everything being instant these days (texting, canned sandwiches, high-speed internet, get-rich-quick schemes), you have to give the relationship time to blossom, and it's not going to happen overnight. You're a great guy, so don't blow it by proposing to the gal on the second date.
Rule #3: Don’t Overstep Because his kids are important to him, they should be important to you, too. If he's divorced and not widowed, chances are his kids still have a mother who is very involved in their life.
Trying to get too involved too quickly will only lead to resentment from her and her children.
If you're not someone who's really comfortable or familiar with children, don't pretend to be!
If he's a keeper, he'll be patient with you and let you get to know his kids at your own speed. They'll probably be able to tell you're trying too hard.